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In loving memory, Sarah Thomas

Family, friends and community members share their memories.

By Nicole Charky

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Published: Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Updated: Monday, November 16, 2009

Sarah Thomas

The Thomas family

Sarah Thomas with family at her 2006 high school graduation.

On the last day of class of spring semester, the right side of Sarah Marie Thomas’ face suddenly went numb, and she lost sight in her right eye.

The Loyola University Chicago student — who years earlier was diagnosed with Chiari Malformation of the brainstem, and constantly had to deal with serious complications from the illness — ended up at Northwestern Memorial Hospital.

She recovered quickly from the alarming episode and studied for finals, which she was determined to complete the following week even though her health remained tenuous.  

Thomas, a psychology major from the far south suburb Joliet, completed her finals with a 3.7 grade point average for the year.

“She wanted to control this disease. She did not want this disease to control her,” said her mother, Karen Thomas. “She wanted nothing more than to get her degree.”

That wish was cut short earlier this month when Thomas, 21, died of complications due to sepsis from a severe infection related to her illness at 1:50 p.m. on Wednesday, Oct. 14, at Provena St. Joseph Medical Center in Joliet.

The Thomas family will receive an honorary degree in memory of Thomas on Thursday, Nov. 5. On this date, both a noon mass at Madonna della Strada and a reception in Piper Hall will be held.

Those who knew the college senior recall a woman who persevered in the face of illness, and selflessly thought of others when she had plenty to worry about.

After anyone helped Thomas out, she immediately sat down to write a thank you card.

“For every major and minor holiday, and sometimes just because, Sarah somehow found the time to mail us cards as reminders of how much she cared,” long time friends Kathy Allen and Stephanie Ranzini wrote in their eulogy for her. “Sarah loved sharing gifts with others, especially ones that were unique and sometimes even handmade, like personally designed clothing, foam picture frames, crayon colored pictures and homemade ornaments.”

The student was also passionate about celebrating the holidays and seeing her favorite play, Wicked, which she saw performed 15 times and memorized all the lines. During the holidays, Thomas decked out her dorm room with not one, but two different Christmas trees.

“Most people only have one Christmas tree in their entire house, but Sarah had two six-foot, fully decorated Christmas trees in her small six-foot-by-eight-foot dorm room,” said her father, Bill Thomas.

Among other obsessions, Thomas loved shoes and had 250 pairs for every outfit. She had them in every color, including neon, said Ranzini, who attended preschool through college with Thomas.

Her family and friends remember how she kept positive, and even when her disease left her plenty to complain about, she never did.

Thomas’ normal day at school consisted of going to class, returning to her dorm for rest and homework, eating dinner and giving herself 1-2 liters of saline everyday to keep herself from passing out, a side effect of her medications and medical problems.

Her health problems began with dizziness, double vision and passing out when she was 13 years old. Her family visited many hospitals, including the Cleveland Clinic and University of Chicago to determine her illness.  As a high school junior, she was confined to a wheelchair.

At age 17, Thomas found out why she had so much pain.

Thomas suffered from Dysautonomia, which is a dysfunction of the automatic nervous system (ANS). The ANS monitors all unconscious body functions, including the cardiovascular, gastrointestinal, metabolic and endocrine systems. Sarah was an active member of Dynakids.org, a Web site for children who suffer from Dysautonomia, and found out about Dan Heffez, Ph.D., a doctor in Milwaukee, through another member. Thomas visited Haffez to determine that her specific form of Dysautonomia was known as Chiari Malformation of the brainstem.

She had brain surgery on Monday, Nov. 21, 2005. Four days later, on Nov. 25, the 17-year-old walked again.

Her friends and family mourn her death, remembering her powerful and fun personality.
“She fought the fight,” her mother said. “There wasn’t anything that she put her mind to that she couldn’t do.”

She is survived by her parents, Bill and Karen Thomas; her brother, Christopher Thomas — all of Joliet; her paternal grandparents, James and Donna Thomas of Joliet; uncle, Doug Milosevich of Minooka; one aunt, Barbara Gans of Orlando, Flo.; numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, friends; and her dogs, Fluffy and Daisy Mae. Services were held Saturday, Oct. 17, at the Cathedral of St. Raymond Nonnatus.

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19 comments

brianna fallon
Tue Dec 1 2009 19:52
this story is amazing god bless her soul you r a lucky family to have had some one like her in your life i wish you all the best and god bless you all
bobbie
Tue Dec 1 2009 01:16
As one who had takin care of Sarah when she was at RIC in Chicago. I am glad that I got the chance to personally get to know an intelligent, strong minded, big heart and beautiful person. She had a heart of gold and people loved her.. She was strong and would have put everything she had left to get where she wanted to be. I am sad that I didnt get the chance to say good bye or even to get to hang out with her once I moved out of state. But she always be in my mind, prayers, and thoughts. Knowing that she is in better place,where she is not suffering or hurting or in any pain. I miss you and my prayers will always be with your family. Love you..RIP
Your name
Thu Nov 26 2009 13:45
Happy Thanksgiving Sarah
We all miss you so much.
Dad, Mom and Chris, Fluffy and Daisy
Corey
Wed Nov 18 2009 11:08
I did not have the honor of knowing Sarah, but I do know her father, who is a truly wonderful person. If she was anything like her father, then she was indeed, very special.
Your name
Tue Nov 17 2009 21:48
Rest in Peace Sarah
Your name
Fri Nov 13 2009 12:29
great article
Your name
Wed Nov 11 2009 12:09
Well Deserved Sarah.
Your name
Wed Nov 11 2009 09:17
Very "Wicked" Sarah. You have followed the path down the yellow brick road and now you are at home.
Your name
Wed Nov 11 2009 09:13
Great to hear about this Sarah.
Your name
Tue Nov 10 2009 21:48
Way to go Sarah.
Dad
Thu Nov 5 2009 17:35
Sarah received an honorary Bachelor of Arts Degree, today, Thursday, November 5, 2009.
Great job Sarah.
JoAnn McDonald
Mon Nov 2 2009 23:21
This article is one of the many ways that Sarah will live on forever and teach others all that she stood for in her short life. Sarah did in 21years what many will not achieve in an entire lifetime. She did it with style, grace, knowledge and compassion. I am so glad to hear that her family will receive her degree this week. Not only did she learn at Loyola but she taught all she came in contact with what it is to truly LIVE life to it's fullest. Rest in peace dear Sarah, we love you and miss you!
Kathy Tibble
Mon Nov 2 2009 15:40
I had the great honor of having been one of Sarah's 8th grade teachers. She was an amazing young lady, always so much fun! Sarah and her friend Stephanie Ranzini would come in every morning to "bug" me. I enjoyed her so much and will always keep her in alive in my heart and memories. What a wonderful article! I am so pleased that Loyola will be honoring her with a degree.
Dad
Mon Nov 2 2009 10:24
Sarah, we will be remembering you today at the All Soul's Day mas at ST. Raymonds.
Sarahs Family
Sun Nov 1 2009 12:02
Thanks for the article on Sarah's life.
Your name
Fri Oct 30 2009 08:29
I never had the pleasure of knowing Sarah, but suffer from both Chiari & Dysautonomia. I also have been having numbness/ pain in half of my face... it's stories like this that hit so close to home, that remind us that there needs to be more research of these two conditions. My sincere condolences are with you at this most difficult time. Thank you for sharing her story.
Deanna J
Thu Oct 29 2009 09:13
Thank you so much for writing Sarah's story. I would hate to see rumors spread about such a wonderful girl. She really gave everything her all, and that's a quality we all can admire.
Jamie Sopczak & The Chiari Center Foundation
Wed Oct 28 2009 22:57
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of Sarah's family and friends.

Jamie Sopczak
The Chiari Center Foundation

Gillian Trumbull
Wed Oct 28 2009 18:51
As one of Sarah's closest friends who also suffers from the identical health challenges I wanted to leave a message. There are so many people at Loyolla who were friends and amazing sources of support to Sarah. Thank you to each and every one of you for every ounce of kindness that you gave. I understand the social hardships that can occur when one is living with a chronic illness. Sarah found freedom, joy and fellowship at Loyolla. She was so happy to be a student there and was thrilled to be so close to graduation. To anyone who knew her, know that you touched her life and brought her much joy. With love, Gillian Trumbull






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